Monday, January 13, 2014

Wesley is 1 month old

Wesley has been our biggest challenge out of all three babies and it started while we were in the hospital. When he was born he swallowed a lot of fluid, so for the first 36 hours he would gag every time he was laid down. Other than that he was a pretty happy baby at that point. He was also the only child that passed his jaundice test and I never had to supplement.
Nursing seemed to be going really well and Bekah was so happy he was doing so good, but a day or so after being home from the hospital she started having a lot of problems with pain. We saw a lactation consultant pretty quickly and it turned out Wesley had a partial tongue tie. Two days later we were in the doctors office getting the extra cartilage clipped. Since then we have had no problems nursing and are hoping we stopped other problems that could have occurred.
During the day, Wesley is still a challenge even though we got his tongue tie resolved. For two weeks straight it seemed I was nursing him nonstop. If he was awake he was crying until I nursed him. Also seemed like other people could hold him and keep him calm better than me. After about one week of crying constantly we gave him the pacifier. He did not take to it right away but has gotten better. In this month we have learned that he cries when he is tired and hungry. He also seems to want to nurse when he is tired and hungry. At first Bekah gave in to his cries and nursed him every hour sometimes, but we are slowly getting away from that. She now nurses him for  hunger only and to lays him down with the pacifier when he is tired. He will sometimes fight his sleep a little and we will have to go in a few times to give him the pacifier again. After a few times though he will normally go to sleep. He is a great night sleeper and most nights is waking up just once. We usually put him to bed between 8 and 9 and he will wake up around 2 and then for the morning between 5:30 and 6.
Even though this has been a challenging month it has flown by and we still feel very blessed to have him in our life. Having three is definitely an adjustment and we probably did not get as many pictures as we should have. With that being said here are some of out favorites we did manage to get during his first month.














Christmas Morning 2013

Christmas morning started for us about 6:30! While we don't push Santa clause too much; we are fine with them having an imagination. They are both convinced that Santa is still real especially Zach. Until they decide not to believe in Santa we will continue to have fun with them and leave one or two gifts open "from Santa".
This years theme was super heroes and legos and the boys were so excited when they went down stairs and saw their "Santa" gifts. They got the batman and spider man caves along with some costumes so they could pretend to be super heroes themselves. We have had to teach them that super heroes are not real and if you ask them who is the real hero they will both say Jesus.
Aside from super heroes all the boys including daddy got hockey sticks and they have already been having fun playing hockey in the driveway outside. 
Wesley slept while we opened gifts this year and even though he was only 2 weeks old he too got a gift from "Santa". We had a very busy day that day with two other stops(forgot to take pictures though), so he did not get to enjoy it until later that evening.
We definitely were overjoyed this Christmas especially with new baby Wesley and are looking forward to all the blessings this new year will bring to our family. We serve an awesome God and He is faithful:)

Pictures will be added soon...stay tuned